Mehr — A thoughtful way to help

1Request
2Facts
3Help
4Your limit
5Choices

Start with the person’s request

What are they asking for?

Choose what they asked you to help with. For example, “Can you buy me lunch?” means food. “Can you help pay this bus fare?” means an item or bill.

Food or a mealSomething to eat now.An essential or a billFor example, a bus ticket, medicine or part of a rent bill.They asked for moneyThe purpose has not been made clear.I am not sure yetI need to understand the request.

What did they say? (optional)

Their wordsThe tool reviews wording behind the scenes. You confirm the meaning; tone does not establish honesty.

Your needs come first. You decide whether to act.